Story Time: My First Girlfriend
There’s nothing quite like being freshly out of the closet. Once the smoke has cleared and you’re no longer dealing with a daily onslaught of reactions to your announcement, you can see the enormous...
View ArticlePublic Service Reminder: Sexual Orientation is Internal
I’ve been engaging in a lot of conversations lately about various aspects of queer sexuality – what else is new? – and it occurred to me that a lot of people hold a huge misconception about sexual...
View ArticleSharing the Sexy #3
Hey babies! I’m currently sitting in the window of a Starbucks eyeing up some hot girls in plaid shirts… um, I mean, typing up this post. Here’s some sexy stuff I saw on the internet this week; what...
View ArticleSharing the Sexy #7
• Here’s the 7 dumbest myths about gay sex. • Modern Family actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson is launching a company that sells stylish bowties to benefit pro-gay rights organizations. I don’t know about you,...
View ArticleBisexual vs. Pansexual
When I was 15, I came out as bisexual, because I liked boys and girls. A few months later, my friend confided in me that she thought she might be bisexual too, because she’d found herself unexpectedly...
View ArticleSharing the Sexy #14
• This lady hacked a Lelo vibrator to create something much more interesting. • Buck Angel said something really victim-blame-y about trans women and the disclosure myth. • Ladies and gentlemen, the...
View ArticleSharing the Sexy #18
• Sex-positive feminist podcast The G Spot has just released its entire first season as a Valentine’s Day gift for you or someone you love. • How to have sex with a survivor. Important stuff. • I think...
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4 Ways to Bring a Little More Gay Into Your Life
As the Pride festival nears, I’m spending a lot of time pondering my queerness. Specifically, where my queerness fits into my life as a person in a “straight” relationship. Being bisexual has always...
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Bisexuality FAQ
I’m bisexual. People have opinions about it. People also have questions – a lot of questions, some of them pretty idiotic, some perfectly valid. Here are the questions I get most often about my sexual...
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Book Review: The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
I’ve wanted to read The Whole Lesbian Sex Book ever since a friend of mine brought a copy to an LGBT conference we attended in high school and the two of us pored over new-to-us information about...
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